I could have been one of those women on that TV show.  I had been so overwhelmed with work and caring for my ailing father that I ignored my own body and didn’t know I was pregnant.  Two weeks after learning I was pregnant, I went for my first doctor visit.  They decided to do an ultrasound, because I had no idea how far along I was.  I told my doctor, two maybe three months at the most, so when he ran the device over my belly, and it revealed a 28-week-old baby, my husband and I were in shock.